Valery Satterwhite

10 Steps to Creating Your Inner Wealth Legacy

Do you want to be remembered for your estate or the difference you've made in the lives you touched? For most people wealth alone isn't fulfilling. Its using wealth to create and express what is meaningful to you that feeds the soul. Its using your wealth... Read >

Four Signs That Indicate You Are Trapped In Wealth

Many wealthy people, however they come into wealth, enjoy happy satisfying lives. Others do not. It's not unusual for authenticity and autonomy to be traded in for portfolio security. It's an empty, lonely, place from which to live. Its a life lived trapp... Read >

Things Wealth Doesn't Protect You From

We think money buys freedom, security and protection. While it can by solutions to everyday problems it doesn't protect us from the stuff that keeps us up at night...the worries and insecurities that creep into our good night. Wealth can give you a feelin... Read >

Relationships: Not a Filling Station

We all want to love and be loved. If we all want this then why is it so hard for so many people to find lasting meaningful love in an intimate relationship? Many of my clients come to me to overcome relationship challenges. Often their initial complai... Read >

Under Pressure? About To Blow Your Top?

Fast paced life constantly under pressure? "I can't do it all to please everyone!" "There's not enough hours in the day." "I'm racing against the clock." These are but a few of the comments we utter in our stressed-out fast-paced life. Its true, e... Read >

What's It All About, Alfie?

The movie, Alfie, in which the title role was played by Michael Cain in 1966 and again in 2004 by Jude Law told the story of a joy riding womanizing man coming to terms with the meaning of life. "What have I got? Really? Some money in my pocket, some ni... Read >

The Ultimate Luxury Experience

There is much talk and concern over the state of the economy. In private and business discussions as well as the media, we hear the theme of stress and distress due to the current economic issues. Yet when I look around me I see abundance. I see people... Read >

Be Advised - The Starbucks Police Is Listening

If you follow me on Facebook or Twitter you might have seen my post: "Note to woman blabbing in the corner of Starbucks: The expiration date on blaming you parents for your misfortune is long past." If you know me at all, you know I'm an observer of... Read >

Rise Above the "First Wives Club"

You married until death do you part. You worked hard to build a life together, raise the kids and establish your nest egg for the future. And then, seemingly out of nowhere, you're knocked on your ass by a divorce. After spending some time in a numb ha... Read >

How to Tame a Control Freak: No Whip Required

If we've lived out from under the bed at all we've experienced the out of control control freak from time to time. Control freaks find comfort in control, that's why control freaks are over-the-top freaky about controlling you and everything else in their... Read >

Resentment: 5 Steps to Transform This Nasty Bugger

There's a nasty little - or not so little - bugger stinking up your inner works. Its what keeps you stuck in simmering angst. Sometimes you can't keep it down. It explodes louder and larger than the fireworks off a NYC pier in prime time. Its fire rains ... Read >

How to Be Secure in Your Insecurity

If you knew me 15 years ago you wouldn't recognize the author, coach and public speaker - with a lot of Moxie - I am today. I was once the shiest person I knew. As a child, I dreaded the first day of school because I usually had to stand up and tell e... Read >

Top 10 Tips to Live Your Best Life

If you're not already living your best life its time to do the hokey pokey and turn yourself around. I challenge you to put your whole self in! Here are 10 tips to get you headed in your highest and best direction: 1. Be Real: To the extent yo... Read >

2011: 3 Steps To Be Accountable To Your Excellence

Truth is, you already are accountable. You are the ultimate creator of all that you do, all that you experience. While you may not have created certain events in your life, you are the generative force behind what you have that experience mean for you. ... Read >

Holidays - BE the Child Within Your Heart

I've always loved the lyrics in the song Landslide by Stevie Nicks: "Oh, mirror in the sky, what is love? Can the child within my heart rise above? Can I sail through the changing ocean tides? Can I handle the seasons of my life?" I first heard the ... Read >